双相情感障碍和重影:这是一个大问题

感谢每一个人分享你的故事。我有几个人在我的生命中双相脱节。当服用药物后他们可以看起来功能正常。我有一个朋友,可以追溯到60年。我们已经关闭。大约5年前,我注意到她的古怪行为。我们并不是生活在同一个城市这变得明显时,她访问了美国。过滤,没有界限的行为非常令人震惊。我不会进入细节,但5天后,和口语和她的家人来到地表。她说她没有带足够的药物。 Whether or not that was true she had people feeling like babysitters before she went home. She would have periods of normalcy. For a time afterwards she lived with her daughter and that not working well for the household she went to a half way house of a sort where meds would be sorted. Then she finally got her own place. Our friendship has been through many phases. I decided to move nearby because I had not recognized patterns to her behavior changing and getting worse over time. We had many conversations where she seemed herself, doing the right thing to get help. Now that I am here, after and for many months she has cut me out of her life. I was hurt at first even angry. I am approaching indifferent as I have decided to cut ties with her. It is too much of a roller coaster. Also my husband and I will be moving back to where we came from. I read somewhere a statement that addresses this issue very well. Having bipolar doesn’t give you a free pass to treat friends with no respect. So we move on. She is on meds, found a new therapist and has a life even in the pandemic. The difference is I am not in it, but it is my choice not hers.

哇!所有的这是非常深刻的,至少可以说非常明确。最近开始约会的童年爱我认识近30年来从未知道BP,直到几个月前。重影在一起生活现在已经持续了3周,考虑到非常有意的日常通信一整天来一个很突然的停止在很多层面上提出了红旗。读完这些文章/经验为了教育自己,我不确定这是我想要我的生活在一个持续的关系疑惑和担忧是否一切都是好的,我必须考虑我自己的心理/情绪.....健康状况和自我尊重

我希望她只鬼。我已经在与某人的关系与双相障碍和强迫症人格障碍自夏季以来,一直试图摆脱它几乎整个时间。我意识到这是个错误,但她每次让我用威胁、恐惧、义务和内疚,坦白说,她让我害怕。我试着真诚地和她说话,她风有恐慌症。我试着休息和一些空间,她觉得被遗弃和伤口的。我希望我可以逃脱。我刚刚发送一个文本,懦夫的出路和很久以前做过,如果她不知道我住的地方,但我不能被疯狂,她的出现和风险,我也不想让她的生活崩溃或她伤害自己。

我的女朋友三年半ghost我。她被诊断出BPD-1大约20年前。我相信她也处理双精神病或躁郁症”特性。“我不认为她知道精神病方面的障碍,她患上了这一点。她的思想创造了交替现实和幻想。她块或压制压力,也使主题或经验。我们都有孩子,决定尝试一起生活。我们讨论了采取这一步骤之前,如果混合家庭没有任何理由,她搬出去了,我们会继续我们的关系。是没有成功,因为不同的教育方式和理念。我们谈论如何给孩子们最好的是我们生活在不同的家庭。 We were in agreement and she said she’d start looking for a new place. After about a month, she hadn’t looked for a place so I asked her about it. She told me that we didn’t have any such conversation. I asked her every couple of months if she was looking and she began changing the topic or ignoring my question all together. There were several heated exchanges after that and finally two years later and more heated exchanges, she looked for and bought a house. She tried to get me to ask her to stay at every step in the process but I held firm. This was in the best interest of our children after all. Once the deal was done, we talked again about how we would continue our relationship. I pointed out that it wouldn’t be too different since her new house was only 6 blocks away. Everything went downhill from there. When it was time to pack and move her belongings she said she was too overwhelmed. I ended up packing and moving all of her stuff. As the move was nearing completion, I was dropping a few things off and noticed that she hadn’t been to bed in many days and was manic. A day later I asked if she was manic and if she should make an appointment with her doctor. She told me that she wasn’t manic. I had moved the last of her things. I hadn’t heard from her in about a week and her mail was piling up. I texted her and asked if I could bring her mail to her. She responded that I was not to call, text, come to her house, or go to her daughter’s school or she would call the police and file for a restraining order against me. I checked in periodically and the threats started coming from her girlfriend. She accused me of stalking and harassing her friend. One of her psychoses is paranoid delusions, the belief that someone is out to get her, wants to cause her harm, or is stalking her, etc. She has vilified me and developed alternate realities to cope with her feelings of rejection, despite my letting her know that I wasn’t rejecting her and that I wanted her in my life forever. I told her we’d live like this for a few years and then when the children are older, I would marry her. Her response was that I was trying to manipulate her. My best guess is that her manic episode triggered her psychosis. She believes the alternate realities her brain has created to cope and has ghosted me ever since. It’s been 9 months and she hasn’t contacted me in any way. I want to reach out and suggest that she talk to her doctor about psychosis but I’m afraid she’ll follow through with her threats and call the police. I don’t believe she will ever realize any of this on her own and I’ve most likely been ghosted for life. She didn’t formally break up with me and the last I heard from her we had a wonderful future ahead of us, then nothing. It is very painful to have the woman I love go from a bright future together to all of this with no contact in 9 months with not so much as an explanation.

有谁知道如果当他们重影你具体地说,他们还张贴在社交媒体吗?我经历了躁狂阶段妇女和她只是停止跟我说话,阻止她发布在facebook上。我不知道发生了什么事。所以我检查有一些共同的朋友,这就是我发现她还发布,主要是她的孩子。我提到我知道她所做的,在一个文本的时候试图找出到底发生了什么。我提到一篇她隐藏起来。接下来我知道她被几个共同的朋友,所以他们看不到前进。她终于解除了街区,伸出3周后。然后她又沉默了两个星期,封锁了!(这是正常的吗?)她说对不起是疯疯癫癫的,她的工作)无论如何也想知道如果它是普通还是文章?

这不仅仅是很难说“这是怎么回事”——正如上面几个人解释道。需要安定下来还是因为你不希望他们看到这样的你。重影告诉别人相反。它说,你的意思是什么,我从来没有,即使是作为一个人更不用说有人我至少说我爱。
也许疾病负责想鬼。
但是你的嘴唇仍然工作或手指写一份报告
难以置信的残酷的对另一个人

我最好的朋友是谁BP2 ghost我。我们进入文本,没有大或疯狂只是一个误会……字面上来回4次总事情也许她是想告诉我,我是误解。年底(甚至不能称之为战斗或分歧)我告诉她谢谢澄清和移动到下一个话题……然后她屏蔽了我的电话,然后我注意到她阻止了我在facebook上!什么我不知道♀️我们确实有实际斗争在过去就给彼此时间,但这一次她阻止了我的生活。Truth be told I’m super hurt I struggle with my own issues (anxiety and PMMD) that take their toll on me and I really don’t need this either. I’ve been there for my friend always and I want to be here now but honestly for my own peace of mind and mental health I may need to just let her go.

我参与一个人双16个月,他就把它在24小时转过来,一分钟我比任何人更爱你下次再见。我离婚了,想等结婚因为他的双相,我看到一些奇怪的行为,但承诺的关系。我已经嫁给了一个男人与主要诊断精神疾病所以迅速跳入婚姻对我来说是不好的。我以前的丈夫另一个家庭在我背后主要的背叛和他作为一个牧师.....是的,真实的。所以我需要时间跟这个人,看看他的双相,合理的请求。也随着时间的流逝,我开始看到一些奇怪的行为,孩子喜欢的行为,像做男孩的声音,将对象在餐桌上变成动物,轻浮的行为,不断成熟的开玩笑,经常和其他更多的风险。那么粗鲁的评论我看但当遇到无法理解如何伤害我,然后继续求我嫁给他,告诉我他有多爱我。然后我在facebook上与女人调情抓到他,发现他在几个谎言。没有得到我一个生日礼物重要的生日,更奇怪的陈述反映滥交行为但对抗时,他就会沉默。显然这是南,他跟他的父母是如何可怕,不会为自己的行为负责,哦,他在一开始,告诉我关于他的双相情感欺骗的方式,然后撒了谎。 Yelled at me in public, having to explain simple things to him and he literally was having trouble with easy tasks, cognitive issues, having to rephrase a sentence so he could understand, major issues, and I did my best to support and prayed as we believed God had brought us together initially and many of these behaviors ramped up recently. Well Obviously I had major reservations, and knew I could not take all of this on, it was not safe. This is not a stable person, so I knew I had to end it, however he did before me. Some of this behavior is bipolar immaturity, impulsively, pressured speech and cognitive impairment from bipolar aging, but some was just plain selfishness, pride and arrogance all wrapped up in a nice package, nice expensive clothing, nice house, nice dinners, you get the picture. People need accountability, we can't act anyway we want and trample others, Obviously he did not act like this in the beginning or I would have walked so if behavior at times can be controlled in the beginning what happened. Glad its over, don't like the sudden turn around but thankful he revealed his true self.

我爱的那个人让我重影。他出现淋浴我的注意力然后消失了好几个月。
上次他甚至要求嫁给我。然后就消失了。他告诉我,他是在一个黑暗的地方。
我对这一切感到如此悲伤。

我7年半的妻子被诊断BP2去年她进入萧条,搬出去,有短的恋情前。她开始药物一段时间后,我们开始把各部分合并起来,她八个月前搬回家。事情已经看似良好,这里或者那里一段时间会持续一两个星期,她会质疑她是否应该在一个关系。在很短的时间之后,她总是会回来。但事情已经顺利到冠状病毒把她在家工作了六个星期。在此期间她开始喝越来越多,晚上8点睡觉的,不是她正常的自我。然后,只要她可以开始回到工作,她告诉我她在另一座城市租了一个公寓30分钟,第二天搬出去。她说如果她不能跟我工作的关系,她将永远不能做一个工作。她说她需要自己的个人空间,需要依靠自己对所有她想要的和需要的东西。她离开才刚刚开始接触三周前,只是偶尔发短信说她对不起或者问我好了。她对我说的最后一件事是,有一天也许我们可以有某种关系。 What? I'm giving her the space she wants but I really think her drinking with her meds may have triggered something. She talked to her doctor but lied when he asked if she'd been drinking. So I'm also wondering if this is the end or just another spell I should try and wait out? There is no easy answer I know.

你好,我是使用奥氮平每天20毫克,猜他是双相。我们打算结婚,然后他告诉我,他不希望。2个月后这个问题,他和我分手了,想成为朋友。和你的完全一样,有时有时他很健谈,有时重影。昨天我告诉他我受伤当他鬼我发现他读消息,并阻断了我的号码。我不知道要做什么,我只是爱他太多。他会开启我吗?

你好,
我真的困和撕裂到底我的情况。我和我的男朋友约会了和他双2 2.5年。他出来,告诉我关于他的双4个月前,我没有看到任何问题,我将永远爱他。不久之后,今年1月,他开始考虑药物和锂。
一旦他开始锂,我注意到他经常轻度躁狂。当他做的时候,我们更倾向于认为. .我会尽量避免这些论点尽我所能,因为他不听或者试图大声说话和重叠。
在这段时间里,我们一直在讨论的过程中订婚,一起拥有一个未来。他的目标是提出今年的某个时候。在这一过程中,他建议我们应该生活在一起,所以他开始研究公寓的过程。我们开始去看公寓,同时试环风格/大小,等等。
一个月前,我们进入一个小论点,触发了他要求3天的空间。这3天变成了1周,2周,3周,现在一个月。在这整个月,他忽略我的电话和消息当我问他是否准备聊天。2天前,我决定向他,看看他准备说话,他说他。他告诉我这不是上班,过去3周,他可以把所有他想和做事情只要他想要的。这对我来说是毁灭性的听,因为他一直能做,花但是他喜欢/想要的。
我只是有点困惑是否这是所有的一部分,他有双相情感或药物的影响,或如果它只是简单地承诺问题。我太累了,原谅他的行为和被困在什么是可接受的,什么不是。我目前在我大学的最后一学期了,在实习这COVIC-19全球大流行。不得不继续看起来几乎不可能,因为我甚至不能与这个社会距离和隔离做正常的事情。我太破,他自私地不承认他将我的精神压力。当我问他在想什么,他只会回答,“这些是我的想法,你不了解他们。“如何从如此爱一个完全冷和小人?就像他把一切计划。我不知道他是谁,这是什么,我否认和原谅这种行为对他有双相情感。我想答案。

我双相的丈夫去他所有的药物和他的家人的催促了,留下我和孩子两年半前12年的婚姻后,他的妈妈住在一起。他没有告诉我们他离开只是走了出去,说他从来没有快乐,告诉我们保持或捐出他所有的东西,他只带两个行李箱,虚反射。当我们在一起的时候他经常会沉默,消失几天或几小时或几周时间和鬼但总是出现。这一次他并没有显示在我们镇上的2.5年。我们有5分离好星期访问但他在新的位置和鬼魂之间、短信和电话非常少,几乎拒绝回答任何电话和经常鬼魂和拒绝回答断断续续文本重影有时拒绝看到我们当我们访问或不遵循通过与来访的美国,但他一直很好每两周至少发短信的事情如果不是每两天。他穿过了时间,他很健谈,然后真的沉默寡言。他很adment他不想离婚,一再道歉为伤害我重影,并再次承诺我们将会有一个传统的婚姻。他目前又跳的位置在美国和他的妈妈,要我等待一个额外的2年为他存钱买我们房子还在不同的位置。我真的很喜欢他,喜欢他不是重影,认真对待我的婚姻誓言,不愿意放弃一个生病的配偶但我怎么区分重影因为疾病和重影的玩游戏吗?我怀疑他只是不想让我忘记他,继续我没有他的生活,他可能玩游戏但是当我指责他,问他好他真的冒犯了他的思想感情受到伤害,他指责我他是一个混蛋,坏的思考他,不给他以最大的善意和鬼魂。 He says he doesn’t mean to ghost but doesn’t know what to say .. Is this typical of bipolar ghosting or is this simply playing games how do I tell the difference ?

不是每个人都这样,它会进一步延续耻辱说患者鬼人,人们不应该用他们的诊断来原谅自己的懦弱。
我从来没有ghost任何人,不会有人对我这么做,
是情绪的奴隶的想法是尽可能多的一个谬论是为了别人。
的唯一区别是双相的人,一个没有双将经历周期性更极端的情绪变化,其如何管理他们,如果他们允许他们的感受如何影响他们的行为,和其他所有人一样,没有区别。
没有人可以选择在我们的情绪我们然而选择我们如何对待人,老实说有点难过的听到的人使用这个作为借口为自己的不良行为或其他人使用他们的诊断来理解它。

2019年7月以来我一直看到我的男朋友现在7到8个月左右,他告诉我他有双相情感在我们第二次约会。我接受他,因为我不关心(我有一个朋友是双相障碍所以我熟悉心理健康问题,而是只有一个朋友层面上)我们在一起的第一个2个月他轻度躁狂发作了,他允许我支持他在整个事件。12月圣诞节的一周我也在家,他问如果我们可以另一个时间,因为他经历一些东西,所以我给他空间尽管我很生气,因为他这样做当我在工作的时候我的工作。新年的一周,他终于和我说话,让我知道他被诊断出患有临床抑郁症的双相,米娅约2个月。我告诉他,还好,只要他让我通知他同意了但这是我最后一次见到他。尽管我发短信和打电话几天分开大约一周一次,他只回答一次1月14日,真的只是一个消息(我的生日的第13个人是他告诉我,他没有忘记我的生日,他对不起我不得不处理这个)idc我告诉他关于我的生日,我只是想知道他是好的。他没有回复我们没说过话,他阻止了我的号码。所以idk做什么或者他甚至想和我在一起。它把我逼疯了。

我需要帮助我在很长一段距离与一个比我年轻的女孩. .她不是诊断,但我们在一起的时间足够长,知道她是双相. .也开始时她向我提到她可能双. .
一开始她很爱现在和我愿意做任何事情,我们在一起的时间足够长,我猜她感觉更舒适的在展示她的症状而不是隐藏他们的关系将发生的事情吗? ?
她现在确实有点重影,然后像有时她甚至不文本我当她一样当天回复. .她似乎有点好,我真的不知道发生了什么

嗨,最近交往了三年的女友离开了我。她一直在治疗双相情感abs进食障碍。我们都是幸福的生活,她是最我知道爱的关心的人。大学毕业后两天她突然很沮丧。她说她很痛苦,生活是毫无意义的,想分手。除了她没有给出具体原因. .事实上她给的理由(我是她最好的朋友,为她做更多的比任何人等)。我与她分手后2周,但她的回答又冷又遥远。她还ghost我在健身房当我看到她,就像她不认识我。3年后我心碎。 As far as I know she is working away as normal and living life as if the previous 3 years didn’t happen. It’s difficult to get me head around things. She may be going through a depressive cycle and trying to put a brave face on things, I don’t know. My heat sinks as I doubt she’ll ever speak to me again and I don’t know why. Any advice welcome

这伤害了你爱的多和他们生气。给他们心理上和情感上。这100%的自私了。我明白想要独处,需要很多空间。但不承认一个人一个星期或两个是错误的。每周只有一个或两个消息就好了。与抑郁症、创伤和双相隔离是很自然很舒服但是来处理这个问题你应该打击你的心,永远记住,人类并不是独处。如果你是隔离这意味着你应该说嘿我要脱离电网,一段时间,我需要时间。我这样做,人们真正理解。但是去完全的网格,不告诉任何人把所有你爱在一个困难的境地,会导致警察介入,如果持续了太长时间。 Do yourselves a favor and reach out at least once, fight the demons in your mind with every ounce of energy you have left. you are stronger than you think and people who love you will eventually understand.