思考自杀未遂和自私的人
自杀是一个自私的行为吗?很多人看到是真实的而一个计划自杀认为否则。自杀的人不相信他们正试图死的自私。他们相信他们的死亡将免费帮助他们周围的世界,并帮助自己的在生活中困难。我知道这个,因为我去过那里。
心灵是一个棘手的问题解读。很难真正理解那些自杀的思想正在经历。事实上,我们永远不会真正理解,因为每个人的思想是不同的和精神疾病会导致非常严重的和不真实的关于自己的想法。然而,问题是,自私的自杀吗?
自杀,自私,让死更痛苦
一个男人非常接近我的心最近去世了。由血液他并不是我的祖父,但成为祖父图通过我的再婚家庭。直到他去世,我从未坐在一个房间的人死了,从未目睹亲人被从他们的家庭。
他的死让我想起了我的过去我的自杀企图。它让我思考如何自私是如果这些努力已经变成了我的死亡。我不能想象我的家人会觉得如果他们找到了我,这将是多么痛苦。
悲伤和痛苦我后祖父去世对他的家人和朋友已经造成巨大的。他触及我们的生活在许多方面,从来没有想死。这不是他选择离去,许多人选择结束生命真的是我自私。
我的自杀和自私的想法
有些人可能不同意我的思维方式,但我确信很多。回顾我的自杀企图,甚至我觉得他们自私的行为,如果当时否则,我想。对于那些有自杀未遂,你是否自我伤害,思考你的死亡会影响你周围的人。思考你如何感觉当亲人去世了。
对于那些自杀,正在考虑通过后,调用一个自杀热线或说出来的人,任何人,在你采取一个步骤。
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APA的参考
艾琳,j .(2014年7月29日)。从人试图自杀想法和自私,HealthyPlace。检索2023年8月24日,从//www.5wetown.com/blogs/speakingoutaboutselfinjury/2014/07/self-harm-and-death-is-suicide-selfish
作者:珍妮弗艾琳·格雷厄姆
我不知道为什么我们觉得法官严厉。真的有用的人/处理自杀想法和感受一劳永逸地宣布他们自私吗?我不这么想。你说在你的文章中,大脑/思维是一个非常棘手的问题。我可能会添加一个非常复杂的器官。并帮助一个自杀的人工作通过抑郁症的谎言(“我负担我周围的每个人。”没有我,他们会更好。”)就是我们的焦点应该是真的。我知道当我在抛出的抑郁和自杀的念头,如果你告诉我,我是自私,我只会竟然相信了谎言。我感觉最好,我们专注于帮助自己和他人从精神疾病治疗,不用担心把精神疾病的标记在任何方面。
如果我们想进入语义技术上我认为自杀是自私的。自私的人是做来结束自己的痛苦。时刻所有生物的本能与冲动克服结束自己的生命,痛苦你是如此严重和包括,甚至没有人可以被考虑。自己的痛优先于其他人的。技术上是自私的,但这也是为我们判断这样一个自私的行为是自私的。我们无法理解的痛苦的人。这不是自私,要求他们在痛苦下去,因为我爱他们,需要他们?不喜欢希望对方的痛苦结束自己即使这意味着复合指数吗?我哥哥是我最好的朋友和导师把他自己的生活。我很生气很长时间了。 We were as close as two people can get and I was devastated that "he could do that to me." He had schizoaffective disorder which basically is like living in a never ending horror movie and nightmare you can't wake up from. He didn't "do it to me". He ended his pain the only way left he felt he had. Often suicidal people truly believe they are relieving their loved ones from their burden. In their warped mind they are doing something selfless not selfish. It took me years to let go of my anger at Steve. But once I learned more and more about his illness and what he was experiencing I don't know how he lasted so long. He did try and held on as long as he could. His suicide was and still is the most gut wrenching pain I carry in my heart everyday. I of course NEVER advocate or think suicide is ever ok to do. It will change the loved ones left behind in tragic and terrible ways. It will hurt them more than anything else in their life. Every person should consider their loved ones and live to fight another day for the sake of love. At the same time, it is because of my love for my brother that I can see it with compassion and realize he did it to end his pain which is what I would have given anything to have done for him. Alex, I'm so sorry for how much pain you are in. I can relate to the paralyzation of life long depression (and PTSD for me) and the tragic feeling of it still being such a struggle after decades of doing everything possible to fight it. Please hold on to the love you have for your three children and I pray that loving them opens you to be able to receive the self love you so richly deserve. Please hold on. I send you love, prayers and compassion.
显然你的祖父很爱和尊重。不幸的是,这并非总是如此的人自杀的意识形态。我是一个女人,没有朋友,没有与我所爱的人。我们不一起做事情,我真的不相信,如果我走了会有这么多的一笔交易。是的一些痛苦,但并不是所有的消费。毕竟如果没有人交易与我生活中他们为什么要介意我不在。
如果你爱的人感到持续的疼痛从身体疾病和告诉你他们无法继续下去了,想死了,你叫他们自私吗?如果你试图阻止他们,因为你不会让你的自私?
没有人能够知道在一个人的头脑分钟前他们将自己的生活。也许有些人完全意识到它将如何影响他人,也许他们不在乎。也许有些人认为其他人没有你会更好。
想把你自己的生活,因为你在这样剧烈的疼痛,看不到出路还是因为你患有精神疾病,可能会影响你的情绪或云你的判断不是自私的。
我的生活一直在思考别人的…有时自私真的self-full。我很少在我的生命中没有考虑别人。甚至我的自杀想法包括考虑别人。它是通过atthispoint我不懂的唯一原因。但当有人从其他人留下来是自私的吗?谁是别人决定的人应该是被迫忍受更多的痛苦吗?当没有工作来减轻疼痛,有时退出是最好的选择……只是另一种方式看论点。
我在这很多年了。我几乎经历了与我的计划我十一的时候,但这个想法在我的头很长一段时间甚至在我离开枪内阁。和你一样,我不认为这是自私的。我被迫经历各种各样的可怕的事情。自杀是唯一的逃脱我可以看到,我觉得我已经受够了。我不相信有人会想念我。我从来没有想到我会伤害任何人的结束我的生命。所有我能想到的是远离虐待欺凌和噩梦和永无止境的恐惧统治着我的生命。自杀是自私的,但我不是规划出来的自私;我只是想帮助自己,很误导了怎么做。 It's very difficult living with the thought of the pain I almost caused my loved ones now. I have self harmed over the guilt of what I nearly did to them. That's the thing about telling someone to think of their family and friends. That's the problem with calling suicide selfish. We never believe we are being selfish when we first consider it. Then if the thought occurs or if someone brings it up, we feel guilty. And that guilt is just another pain on top of everything else we are suffering. My advice is to be careful not to make someone feel even worse by guilting them when they are suicidal. Everyone has someone who loves them and would miss them, but you have to be careful not to make them feel accused because its likely they honestly think that no one would be hurt by their death. It's likely they honestly believe no one really cares or anyone who does care at all would be able to move on and be better off without them in the end. But that's never true. People who are hurting need to know that they are loved and important. They need to know they are needed and valued. If someone would've told me I was being selfish when I was eleven, I would've just thought they didn't understand. It wouldn't have changes my mind; it only would have made me feel worse. They would've been right; I never even considered that my twelve year old brother would've found me and been scarred for life if I had gone through with it. But that wouldn't have helped me at the time. So be careful about how you speak when you are trying to help a hurting loved one.
我已经双方多次这个问题所以我认为自己有些专家。当你的思想是健康的你意识到自杀是自私,伤害了那些爱你有时无法修复,但一个生病的和混乱的头脑认为w他们所有,每个人都会更好w /他们的状况会好起来的。它超越很难杀死自己违背一切我们已经在宗教和直到你犯了一个严重的尝试你身体的肾上腺素战斗或逃跑。
我敏锐地意识到痛苦的自杀会导致尤其是3的儿子。是什么使我存活至少过去10多年。问题是我抗抑郁治疗变得如此常数和强烈的痛苦,我觉得因此瘫痪,没有用的,我经常接近完成不管后果。我试过所以很难修复自己这么多年在很多方面。基本上,我已经失去了希望,我讨厌所有人,自己的负担。