爱一个人有双相情感障碍

我的女朋友刚买了这本书,拍了张照片,并将其发送今天说她承诺,开始读它。这让我愤怒,尴尬、内疚和惭愧。我的意思是什么啊?你们真的需要一个该死的“用户手册”来学习来处理这个问题?我知道信息很重要,但该死的,我感觉自己像个怪物知道有人需要说明如何去爱我,因为我是英国石油公司。这是侮辱,如果你要读一本书,爱你的伴侣,是英国石油公司,它使“正常”情人看起来像一个完整的白痴。这本书是一块垃圾,没有一本书能涵盖所有的动力学障碍。这就像阅读《雾都孤儿》和假装你知道所有关于孤儿。推广这种疾病在书格式完全是愚蠢的。他们有夫妻一起做活动吗? Lmao. Yea....I haven't even read a page and would burn every copy I see because the authors (Big time "doctors", although just trying to help, obviously think we are all the same and you can read a book and significantly improve a relationship with someone that's BP. I know many people with BPD, and I might not be a doctor but am an LPC, and I've never met two people with BPD that are even close to being similar in thoughts, actions, or emotions. Everyone is unique and while there are some true stereotypes, you gotta go through the gauntlet to learn how to love someone with BPD. Buy the book, waste your money, do your "homework" with your partner, and I guarantee you will still be struggling with his or her disorder on a daily basis. Guarantee it! Also...there is no way in hell that you will ever beat this disorder, and there is definitely no cure. It's so complex that a psychiatrist can't even prescribe the right medicine the first time. I've been searching 10 years for the right meds and STILL can't find one that really helps. This book is insulting and the author should meet more people with BPD...Especially me. Sounds like a generic mold that she's trying to fit everyone into. Yea yea yea...."Read the book before you judge it AJ." Well...when the ignorant title pisses me off...there's a slim chance I'd even give it a glance. How much more guilt do we need on top of what we already have because of this disorder? I agree with that previous post by Lisa...I'd rather be single for the rest of my life and die alone than present this embarrassing book into a relationship. Instead of buying the damn thing, do a google search. Its cheaper and I'm sure you'd find testimonials that could teach you more. Or just be normal and see a therapist with plenty of experience. Simply put....this book may help somebody, but like I said....no way in hell it will allow the non-afflicted to love their partner more or better. Either you can handle it and stick by their side, learning as you go, or you need to run for the hills because this brain disease is so complicated, you could write volumes of books and STILL not completely explain your afflicted lover's ailment. Rant over. Do yourselves a favor and google the info on this disorder. You can do it privately so you don't make your lover feel alienated and like a highschooler. Activities/Homework.....give me a break.

我一直和我的美丽伙伴15年。他是我的灵魂伴侣。这是一个地狱的一程虽然像桶,广泛性焦虑症、抑郁症和Alcholism。他被确诊为前10年或我们的关系。我推荐这本书。有护理人员资源太少,虽然很难所以值得。这本书帮助我如何建立技能和知识的支持伙伴,最重要的是它给了我我的有效性的关系。有史以来最大的事情我发现当我谈论任何人,尤其是如果他是真的不舒服,自杀和自我伤害,人们会说“哦,这是可怕的,你为什么不离开呢?”That makes me angry! Would they say that to someone who just said their partner had cancer????? (My poor hubby has Leukemia too). I love my husband with all my heart and soul and he loves me the same. Love you forever and a day is our saying. How we have managed to stay in a relationship so long is that it is built on honesty and trust and never losing hope. And when the tough times come I stand by his side, hold his hand (sometimes metaphorically) and we get through it together. And I see how much he loves me, when the black dog visits and he is in deep dispear he said that with all the negative thoughts going around in his head telling him to do bad stuff to himself, and there is no hope, he has this one single voice/thought that just keeps saying "Listen to Natalie, she is always right snd says the reality truth" and for me that shows an amazing level of trust and love he has for me. It does get overwhelming at times especially if he is rapid cycling every day, but the tiredness and hopeless feelings are just BP burnout, and largely due to lack of support services. But we are in this journey together and no one can take our love away. My best advice is read and learn, work with your partner on management plans and identifying triggers etc and base your realtionship on love, trust and honesty. (Shit half the people I know without mental illness dont have that in there relationships lol) And be vigilant at looking after yourself thats really important for YOU! Anyway sorry for the rant there is not many places for me to vent without being judged. Its our 11th wedding anniversary this Saturday. We have had a rough patch with him being really ill, but fingers crossed we can get to our plan of a picnic in the beautiful park we were married in, otherwise we will have it in our lounge room if he is too unwell. Cause thats the otherthing you need to learn being unjudgementally flexible, so you dont miss out on experiences together, you just adapt them lol. Have a great day everyone! And thanks for the fb page I found you a few weeks ago and your blogs are helping ME every day. Cheers Natalie

有什么区别的第一和第二版这本书吗?我希望在ebay上买它但是我不知道应该买还是第二版……我还发现很多第一版和bi极地生存指南。我想买很多,然后购买第二版或者说……我需要两个版本…我患有BPD……我和我的男朋友已经有一年了……但六个月前他去体验我的低…我从我的药物,我定期做当我感到不可战胜的,不要认为我需要他们....他和我分手了一周半前……它让我意识到我需要药物,呆在他们…我们真的推开我们最爱的人……他不明白他觉得他试图“修复”……他感到很无助…he knew from day one i was bi polar but never did any research on it...we still have to live together for the next 3 months... ilove his crazy...lol not bi polar crazy =P....im hoping within that time he can find his love again...but either way i need to focus on myself..and my journey first. thank you for reading this

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你好,丽莎,
有关于青少年双相的书。我不推荐任何一个具体地说,但也许你会发现一个有帮助的。
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,娜塔莎

现在,我需要找到一本书(或其它出版物)和一个十几岁的女儿的故事,所谓有人的双相。(双相)+(青春期焦虑)如此严厉的母亲。我读“纯粹的混乱”,但发现它撕心裂肺的痛苦,而不是更有希望。我还是希望我的女儿不会那么糟糕。也许我太天真。

我宁愿保持单身,我的书将被称为“单身和双相”

这听起来太棒了。我只需要找到一个方法让他看。我想我觉得我让他给我做作业因为我搞砸了,哎。无论如何,谢谢你的建议。:)

嗨,娜塔莎
向你的医生寻求建议非常重要时药物。每个人的反应不同。伟大的审查顺便我要给这本书一旦结束。
再次谢谢你,丹

嗨,保罗,
我理解的角度来看,问题是我看到太多的人伤害的副作用,因为这种类型的事情。人们需要充分了解,因为他们需要负责他们的决策和真实的信息是唯一的方法。我宁愿人们向他们的医生询问副作用信息而不是阅读概述,认为他们知道一切。
,娜塔莎

娜塔莎,你真的认为它是不适当的给予简要的描述双相患者的许多双药物伙伴吗?我知道我自己的妻子,不关心细节,并可能欣赏剧情简介,但是不会读任何更多的深度。我没有读过这本书,但附录作为一个快速参考听起来像是一个好主意。互联网总是可用的更完整的描述,副作用等。