边缘型人格障碍,操纵和诚实

女孩,我得到它。桶是如此如此的困难。我不知道什么是真实,什么是只有我是非理性的。我刚诊断出患有BPD和我的前男友和我都努力试图重新聚到一起,我觉得我没有朋友,没有控制的现实。我觉得我没有一个当骤然恶化。

我不知道如何配置响应与我或我的头脑中的一切。但在确定你理解。
我只是希望你和所有人一样。我感到孤独。非常,非常孤独。就像我自己想要的但不孤独。一半的东西我做的是潜意识,当我不能解释人们不理解。所以我相信这些帖子,评论和理解的人。无论多远,我觉得一个连接。给我理由。
我感谢你,每个人都只是你。
无论我们是多么可怕的自己,我们彼此是圣人。

非常有趣的

你听起来很无知和无礼。我有桶和知道很多疾病。你知道“操纵的定义是一个深思熟虑的思考过程。不是行为,而是思想。认知、精明巧妙的…。规划,并展开一个计划,一个想法,这个想法现实。”?操作是一个反应,而不是一个反应。操作被定义为一个思考过程,而不是一个行为过程。只是产品的行为。这反应的产物,一种pseudo-manipulation通常与边缘型人格激活当个体感知即将毁灭,灾难和被抛弃。 This hypersensitivity may stir up tremendous anxiety and helplessness. Most people with a borderline personality have not successfully moved though their early developmental stages and are fixated usually around 2 to 4 years of age. Impulsivity is a prominent behavior that is often misinterpreted as manipulation. A person with borderline personality may experience anxiety as helplessness since she cannot equate her notions to an adult on an equal level. In other words, the sufferer of BPD 'is in maddening, excruciating emotional pain and confusion.' Many psychiatrists portrays helplessness especially well since time becomes narrowed and pressured giving a sense of urgency to resolve the pain. This sets into motion a reactive reflex (pseudo-manipulation) to ward off anxiety with often-destructive consequences. These destructive measures amount to job loss or relationship failure due to poor strategies to resolve antithetical troubles, hardly an artful and shrewd manipulation of a mastermind. Also, many psychiatrists have a particular dislike for the word "manipulative" as commonly applied to these patients [borderline]. They point out that this implies that they are skilled at managing other people, when it is precisely the opposite that is true. Also, the fact that a person may feel manipulated does not necessarily imply that this was the intention of someone with BPD; It is more probable that the patient did not have the skills to deal with the situation more effectively. Rather than viewing themselves [individuals with borderline personality disorder] as someone who is attempting to manipulate, is attention-seeking, or is sabotaging treatment, individuals with borderline personality disorder learn to view themselves as driven by the disorder to seek relief from a painful illness through desperate behaviors which are reinforced by negative and distorted thinking. "A borderline personality has the ability to manipulate, however; it is not the principal process of artful cognition that leads to borderline-style behavior. If we are going to use the term ‘behavior’ then it is more parallel to defensive behavior. Most of the time a borderline adapts to defensive behavior rather than manipulative behavior. People with BPD have emotional reactions, or behaviors that are blunt, clumsy and ineffective efforts to have the BPD's needs met. There is an immense differentiation between primitive borderline defense mechanisms and skillful manipulation, the product of each, which is behavior." It is helpful to consider that often times a person that has borderline personality is a ‘mixed bag’ since co-morbidity traits in patients with borderline personality disorder is high. However, if borderline personality disorder is the principle personality structure, chances are they are poor manipulators. Manipulation is a deliberate and artful thought process, which is not a common trait found in the borderline personality. The borderline personality defense is closer a Reactive Defense Mechanism that operates as a knee-jerk retort flung into motion from a low threshold of impulsivity. Identifying the difference between manipulation and reaction to painful stimuli can help ameliorate the therapeutic stance.
也许你应该更小心你说的话,因为它可以伤害和不体贴的那些挣扎于精神疾病。感谢您的阅读,我希望这个教育你。:)

阿们。