3歌曲没有关于桶——但可能

有人说,艺术可以治疗。音乐也不例外。最近,我发现三个歌曲,据我所知,不是关于边缘型人格障碍(BPD),但做一个了不起的工作描述。梅雷迪斯•布鲁克斯的歌曲婊子比利·乔的她总是对我一个女人和娜塔莉商人的我的皮肤。

婊子

这首歌总结桶简而言之的歌词“我是你的地狱,我自己的梦想/我没什么之间”。桶的症状之一是“非此即彼”的思维,这是最好的概括为“我不是好所以我必须坏”,而不是健康的“我有好的和坏的品质。”

另一个线是“所以接受真实的我/这可能意味着你要成为一个强大的人放心,当我开始让你紧张/我要极端/明天我将改变,今天并不意味着一件事。”Translation: "Please accept me even at a great personal cost, and please understand my volatile mood swings." Two more symptoms of BPD are uncertain identity and rapid cycling idealization and devaluation. In other words, a person with BPD might change between today and tomorrow, and might hold you in high regard one day and despise you the next. It does indeed take a strong--or understanding--person to put up with this.

她总是对我一个女人

比利·乔的歌,歌词大概是有关他的前妻描述爱的人以桶。“她经常和她突然残酷/她可以做她想做的,她谁也不是傻子。”This describes the rapid cycling idealization and devaluation common in BPD--we can literally be frequently kind and suddenly cruel to the same person within a short time period.

”这首歌的另一个线是她可以杀死微笑着,她可以用她的眼睛/伤口可以毁掉你的信仰和随意的谎言/她只揭示了她想要的你/她隐藏了像一个孩子,但她总是对我一个女人。”If you don't relate to this, you're probably not affected by BPD. Symptoms of BPD include emotional manipulation, casual lying (although it's not one of the diagnostic criteria, this is a common trait), and fear of being emotionally vulnerable. Emotionally speaking, we're children. It takes a special kind of person to see us for what we are.

我的皮肤

这首歌开始直言不讳——“看一看我的身体/看我的手
这里有如此多的/我不明白。”BPD is one of the few mental illnesses that leaves visible physical scars in the form of self-injury. We don't always understand why we do it; we just know that it helps us feel better. It helps us give voice to unspeakable pain, it helps us feel something instead of nothing, it gives us courage to override the pain of the current situation and change it.

“我已经如此错误的/我一直待这么长时间,如果我成为贱民。”The cause of BPD is unknown, but many people with BPD are abuse survivors. We desperately want to talk about it, but people shy away from such an uncomfortable discussion. Sadly, we often end up in abusive relationships, perpetuating our symptoms.

“我需要/黑暗/甜/悲伤/疲软/我需要这个/我需要摇篮曲/一个吻晚安/我生命的天使甜蜜/爱/哦,我需要这个。”Life with BPD is difficult--we come to rely on the pain because we don't know how to live without it. We need the darkness, but we need light as well. We need help but don't always know how to ask for it.

音乐可以很好的帮助人们理解桶。这三个歌曲可能好提当你描述桶non-BPD人。

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