依赖病人——案例研究
获得洞察的共同依赖。阅读疗法的病人诊断为依赖型人格障碍。
的第一次治疗莫娜,女,32岁,被诊断为依赖型人格障碍(或协同依赖性)
“我知道我不会死,但它经常感觉。”- - - - - -says Mona and nervously pats her auburn hair - "I can't live without him, that's for sure. When he is gone, it's like life switching from Technicolor to black and white. There is no excitement, this electricity in the air that seems to constantly surround him." She misses him so much that it physically hurts. Sometimes she feels like throwing up at the mere thought of separating or being abandoned by him. She is helpless without him: "He is so masterful and knows how to fix things around the house." He is gorgeous and a great lover.
他是智力刺激吗?他们谈了很多吗?她不安地在她的座位上:“他更沉默的强类型”。She is supporting him financially. "He is studying". In the last seven years he had switched from psychology to political science to physical therapy. How long will she underwrite his quest for self-realization? "As long as it takes. I love him".
她承认,他是口头上,有时肉体上的虐待。他欺骗了她多次,通常与大学同学。那么,为什么她还跟他吗?“他有他好的方面”。他们超过他的坏习惯吗?她显然是不满意我的问题但不愿表达她保留。
我告诉她——她的亲密伴侣拒绝参加治疗,我只是想更好的了解他,如果只有通过代理。显然她有心事,否则我们不会有这个治疗。“我想学习如何抓住他。”- - - - - -she whispers - "He is a very special man and has special needs. I am looking for guidance on how to hook him. I want him to become addicted to me, like a junkie." She even participated in group sex once or twice to make his fantasies come true.
这打她作为一个健康的基础关系?她不在乎。她咨询了所有朋友,甚至随意的熟人,但她不知道是否要相信他们。她有很多朋友吗?没有任何更多。为什么不呢?人们厌倦了她,他们说她是执着。但这不是真的,她只有定期询问他们的意见。“朋友是什么,总之呢?”
她有工作吗?她是一名律师,但她的梦想是成为一个电影导演。她生动地,热情地描述她会做什么在相机后面。抱着她回什么?她谦虚地笑着说:“除了平庸的人才,没有什么。”
这篇文章发表在我的书中,“恶性自恋自爱——重新审视”
APA的参考
Vaknin,美国(2009年10月1日)。依赖病人——一个案例研究中,HealthyPlace。检索2023年5月14日从//www.5wetown.com/personality-disorders/malignant-self-love/dependent-patient-a-case-study