当你的室友患有躁郁症
当你的室友患有躁郁症时，需要考虑一些事情。尽管精神疾病的影响影响最严重的人，但它们也会给那些朋友和家人造成严重后果。那些与精神疾病患者一起生活的人会更强烈地感受到这种影响。当你的室友双相情感障碍——或任何其他精神疾病——他们可能在不知不觉中负责照顾你，并管理自己对你症状的反应(双相情感障碍对家人和朋友的影响）.
当你的室友患有双相情感障碍时，管理实际的细节
我和现在的室友住在一起快五年了，在这段时间里我有一段长期抑郁发作．在我最糟糕的时候，我没有离开我的房间，呆在床上，关着门。在几周或几个月的时间里，这种行为改变了家里家务的动态。
Since I couldn't get out of bed, my roommate had to feed my cat and change the litter box
——这是他最讨厌做的两件事，因为这只猫显然是属于我的，而不是公寓的。每当我用杯子或勺子时，他还得洗碗，打扫浴室和厨房等公共区域。在我发病期间，公寓里的分工发生了明显的变化，因为我不能照顾自己，更不用说其他的工作了。幸运的是，我告诉了我的室友发生在我身上的事，并讨论了一集如何双相抑郁在我有一个孩子之前这种早期的交流避免了对我的行为产生太多的怨恨。
室友患有双相情感障碍时的情绪影响
虽然室友的情况可能是实际的，而不是情感上的安排，但如果室友有躁郁症，仍然会有情感上的损失。在我的康复过程中，我对自己的进步感到沮丧，大部分时间仍然感到抑郁的影响。我的室友在我的不满中首当其冲我经常抨击他或者在客厅里大哭。
因为我们事先讨论过我的疾病和症状，我的室友对我的爆发没有那么生气。然而，他也确实以自己的沮丧来回应，我们有时会发生争吵，最后以摔门而告终。对我来说，重要的是要记得为把我的负面情绪发泄在他身上道歉让他意识到我的情绪状态是如何影响他的感受和反应的。
如果你的室友患有双相情感障碍，你可以在康复过程中发挥关键作用
与精神疾病患者同住一个屋檐下，最重要的方面是能够注意到症状和行为的变化。当我有一个双相障碍复发, my roommate noticed my behavioral decline before I did, being aware when I cancelled plans and isolated socially.When I started to get better, he also noticed the change in my mood, my outlook, and how I interacted with him.Having someone at home who experiences my emotional and physical state as often as I can, helps me stay on top of when I might be slipping back into depression before a full episode sets in.
APA的参考
劳埃德，T.(2015年11月12日)。当你的室友有躁郁症，健康的地方。2022年10月8日从//www.5wetown.com/blogs/relationshipsandmentalillness/2015/11/when-your-roommate-has-bipolar-disorder检索到
作者:特蕾西劳埃德
我在Airbnb上有一个无家可归的客人，当提供牛排时，他们问他们是否可以住到找到公寓。这已经变成了一场噩梦，因为这封信是两极的，对房子非常有破坏性。他们不在租约上，也不应该永久居住。我怎么才能合法地摆脱他们??
我害怕。My roommate is laughing on its own, getting mad and shouting at no one or would create these scenarios.I just moved in like more than a month ago.Then one of our roommates moved out because that roommate had a knife to their side when the roommte just wanted to get the food delivery person up the building.Just in case the person let in is dangerous.That roommate left and I am alone with the roommate with bipolar.The roommate with bipolar entered my room twice.First, stole some things.第二,不确定。I just bought a doorknob that can be locked with a key from the outside so I can lock it when i leave. I am currently looking for a olace to live because I am so scared. I don’t even pee or get drinks anymore because I’m scared to go out.
我的室友和前闺蜜被诊断为双相躁郁症和吸毒者(正在恢复中)。We entered into a short term agreement that I would handle the household affairs in exchange for room and board while I was looking for a job.It has been a nightmare ever since.He is often abusive verbally and it has escalated to violence on two occasions.Any offense he perceives, based in fact or not, results in him attempting to throw me out at that moment.While I, and others, can see that he’s full of @$!# most of the time, it’s like he really believes everyone around him is the problem.His mood range from entitlement to rage to convincing contrition.It’s a wild rollercoaster of insanity living with him and I try my best not to engage him on any level.Last night, I had to call the police because he started one of his episodes and I knew I was too physically weak from surgery that day to deal with him. It eventually devolved to him running around the apartment in his underwear while guests tried to calm him down and he threw all the food in the kitchen away, citing it as an attempt to starve me. I’m really not sure how to handle him when he goes to that insane place. I care about the guy but enough is really enough and he is dangerous and destructive when he gets out of control. Any advice on how to deal with a bipolar person with strong aggression would be much appreciated.
嗨,约瑟夫。这是一个艰难的处境，谢谢你与我们分享。听起来你的室友正在经历躁狂发作。许多患有双相情感障碍的人在狂躁的时候会做一些在他们周围的人看来很疯狂的事情。如果你觉得自己有危险，你报警是对的。如果你和他们都觉得他真的对自己或他人构成威胁，他们可能会对他进行72小时的拘留。然而，如果你正在寻找长期的解决方案，你可能需要等待他的狂热结束，并在他从狂热中恢复过来时进行一次理性的对话。和他，还有他的朋友和家人一起工作，当这种事情发生时，建立一个组织，告诉他们该怎么做。如果你无法等待，或者无法应对他的情绪波动——这是躁郁症的表现之一——那么最好的办法就是摆脱室友关系。
我的室友有躁郁症。我在地狱里。口头虐待。消费成瘾。囤积者。剥削。控制。什么都说不出真话。她不收拾自己的东西，因为我没有加入她的“我爱我”粉丝俱乐部而对我很生气。一分钟一分钟地波动情绪。 Never takes responsibility for anything always blames someone else. Passive aggressive. Steals. Pads bills to makeup for spending too much money. Spreads gossip that I am living off of her and that is why she has money problems. Controlling and starts screaming when I remind her I rent a room from her that's it. Has hidden toliet paper and paper towels, locked me out of the bathroom at nite, hidden my mail, stile my debit card, leaves her dishes and mess for me to clean up even when I have been away for a week, rudely insults me in front of people, tried to seduce my date, demands that I don't date or have friends over and the list goes on and on. This is a horrible person. I am moving next week. I will never breathe the same air as this racists ass and I have light pigmentation.
我已经和一个躁郁症室友住了6个月了，到目前为止，随着我们的发展，她有很多次发作。后来她母亲试图自杀，因为我室友搬进来后，她们之间的亲密关系破裂了。妈妈也有。现在很戏剧化，室友出去的时候，妈妈打电话给我编了个假故事，我就会反应过来。昨天室友假装疼痛难忍拖着我满城跑去给自己吃药然后在急救室待了好几个小时然后叫了救护车把室友送去急诊室然后室友的妈妈在去急诊室看室友的路上出了车祸。室友把我折磨得够受的，我真的很担心很紧张，然后室友一个小时后若无其事地回家了，我不得不在这么热的天气里走了20个街区才从急症室回家。室友要走了，我怎样才能摆脱躁郁症的室友?我很害怕。
天哪，我的室友有某种精神疾病，在我搬进来之前她没有提过。有时候她人很好，但之后她会好几天不和我说话，或者表现得非常粗鲁，或者因为她向我要充电器，而我说我正在用，就摔我的门。在日常生活中，这是很难处理的。回家前我很焦虑，因为我不知道她今天会过得好还是不好。我试着去理解和支持她，但我从来不知道该说什么，特别是因为她对每件事至少每天都会改变一次主意，所以我生活在完全不确定之中。例如，从去年11月开始，她就一直告诉我她下周要搬出去，因为她想住在另一个街区。5个月后，她还在这里。