兄弟姐妹虐待儿童精神疾病的结果
虐待我的家人经历的兄弟因为我儿子有破坏性情绪失调障碍(DMDD)。这意味着他的情绪反应强烈了扳机。更糟糕的是,触发器通常是他的妹妹。如果他认为她有任何积极的,他不,世界末日爆发。我不知道兄弟姐妹没有精神疾病如何相互作用。我所知道的是,与兄弟姐妹滥用的战斗耗尽。
兄弟姐妹滥用与兄弟姐妹间的竞争
兄弟姐妹争夺一切:对象,父母、游戏。父母期望它,即使我们觉得无聊。
竞争成为兄弟姐妹滥用对另一个是当一个孩子的行为严重,故意和重复。我儿子有时寻找我女儿来恐吓或扰乱她的。我的女儿从来没有试图伤害他除了自卫。大多数的时间,她渴望他的注意,因为她爱他。
它深深地伤害看父母,它会导致慢性焦虑。
什么导致滥用的兄弟?
兄弟姐妹滥用的原因似乎是相似的是什么原因导致合作伙伴滥用。我读一次,儿童间歇性暴发性精神障碍(IED),类似于DMDD,滥用未来亲密伴侣的可能性更高。这部分是因为DMDD一样,一旦他们失去情绪控制,他们不能轻松下来。与此同时,他们破坏财产或伤害别人。当他们已经平息了,感觉糟透了,但是这并不是治愈滥用。
像成人,儿童,还有权力和控制的需要。我儿子的家庭治疗师指出,与他的妹妹经常涉及他试图夺走她的力量或试图控制她的行为。他尤其引发了如果他觉得她得到了更多的关注,更少的作业,为自己或任何他想要的。他常常想“竞技场”不了解,甚至已经或者他其实有时超过她。
如何防止滥用兄弟吗
工作很累,但父母阻止它。我觉得我一直在拳击圈,它们之间竞相分开或步骤阻止抛出对象。我不得不物理删除我的儿子他的房间,这样他就可以从一个DMDD爆发在一个安全的环境。我有家人或朋友带我女儿几个小时她可以安全的其他地方。
这也是精神疾病的另一个原因是如此孤立。我丈夫和我不怎么出去,因为保姆能管理暴力爆发?我的儿子不能仅仅看他的妹妹,清楚。我们必须向裁判交互。
这意味着精神疾病是很累的。我的孩子们住在一起,所以我需要保护我的女儿,同时试图帮助我的儿子。他们需要两种不同类型的教育,但只是我,欺骗他们两个在同一个拳击环防止他们兄弟滥用。
帮助兄弟姐妹滥用怎么走吗
我儿子的行为使他被伤害或伤害他人的风险。最近的新闻报道让我女儿的幸福焦虑很高在家不用担心她的安全,。我需要管理他们的情感过载和我接近自己的过载。
我对她的下一步治疗,一个安全的地方讨论她的弟弟和滥用任何兄弟姐妹。我们试过在家庭治疗,但我的儿子说他的反应不佳虐待行为。我听到这个发生在治疗的成人关系,。
我给我女儿家以外的家:女童子军,钢琴课和课外活动。她需要更多的独处时间与父母双方,这是另一个步骤,但它更难以发生。
我亏本,所以如果有人知道兄弟滥用资源,请在评论中留下一些。我相信它会帮助大量的父母。
另请参阅
APA的参考
大卫,m(2017年12月18日)。兄弟姐妹虐待的童年精神疾病,HealthyPlace。检索2023年7月21日从//www.5wetown.com/blogs/parentingchildwithmentalillness/2017/12/when-childhood-mental-illness-leads-to-sibling-abuse
作者:梅丽莎·大卫
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是的!是的!这是耗尽....但我们必须继续前进。我们生活的平行生命……我女儿与DMDD斗争和她的小弟弟感觉的影响,但是我们尽力保证他们的安全,感受爱。
要表扬你认识到你儿子的滥用他的妹妹和试图保护她。我真的觉得给你的女儿我也被我的兄弟。然而,我的父母没有做任何事情来阻止它并没有帮助我。作为一个成年人我患有抑郁症和慢性疼痛,我感觉是由创伤引起的。我希望我的父母都是和你一样有用,知识渊博。我知道你和你的儿子也痛苦。最好的运气。