为什么我仍然讨厌精神分裂症

想加入这个讨论。

这糟透了。我的精神疾病也偷了我的生活和我的心灵。(其偷了从我……我的未来,我的潜力…我以它为界

这是真实的。这就是人们觉得当亲密的家庭意识到他们有精神分裂症。你可能意识到之前所做的。并没有与他们分享。你跟信任的家庭成员。信赖的朋友。甚至牧师父亲或医师。但是你试图否认家庭成员患有精神分裂症。
无论什么。奇怪的是他们不给你所想的* * * *。一些深的有精神分裂症的人可能认为* * * *,你拒绝承认。
你们了解全球变暖,物种灭绝,宗教是多么荒谬。你不会承认这一点。这是冰山的一角。你的家人精神分裂症甚至不包括我刚才提到的几个主题。
压倒性的,有一个诚实....盛行和你的家人想知道为什么他们必须看到这个事实。他们想找到故障。小心你的错。它的确很重要。给他们。我们所有的人。给你。

我有精神分裂症,我觉得对你我阻止了所有的专业人士和那些有疾病的第一手知识。
我接受我的诊断,但我不接受我的预后。
地球上有几十亿个人有数万亿形式的这种疾病。
我的真信念是精神病学在石器时代。但必要时,他们没有掌握个人表现的范围。
我讨厌精神病社区,我觉得除了窒息。
如果你带我个人成功和权衡它反对我的精神病医生评估你会发现分离的光年。
巨大的进步在世界范围内还不能理解精神病学,直到真正需要帮助个人对抗这种疾病可以真正诚实和成功。

你不能指望别人来了解你的经历。我做的事。过去的两年里一直是过山车。我的儿子是一个成年人了,他现在是39。没有锁的药物和我依靠他“需要”药物。我们大吵了一架,从他回答一个醉酒的陌生人的大门,打开他的皮卡跑他回家在加州。判断力差,他是跟随基督。大多数宗教医生告诉我。我爱耶稣,我希望他能医治我的儿子。我的生活是地狱花做医院,康复中心,911电话。 I have cut him down when the voice told him to prove that he loved God by hanging himself. I love my son. I have had more counseling than I can throw up at. I understand, I am alone, no other family member has to put up with this. Oh sure they visit but my life is not my own. He wants a family, a wife, and children. I think this hurts more than cutting me would. I want all those things for him I love him. People are so ignorant to just say relax enjoy....perhaps they needed to be by his side when he woke up out of his coma. Birthdays trigger awfulness. So do my vacations. I don't take vacations anymore. I asked his father to help he remarried she is afraid of him to spend the night. They live 2 states away just a week? Please, I would love a week just to not be scared the phone is going to ring that he has amnesia. Then there are the times when he is totally normal. That isn't today. I love you sister of fire I'll say a prayer for you too.

sayyin我不明白了,嗨,妈妈,你的一天怎么样?对我来说,这似乎是正常的。太多的为什么你期望从他在他生病了吗?不要苦了自己,也照顾好自己。受伤的灵魂是一个伟大的文章在互联网上一些可能的解决方案,不要误会我,但对我解释这一切。我没有看守,走上街头。我也有很多的期望。我是足够的。我没有更努力工作。我现在没有药的精神病,当我没有hospitiliazation或治疗任何东西,只是疯狂的呼吁寻求治疗。 I listen to quiet uplifting music and people who tell me positive things about myself and read positve books about how I am loved regardless of what I have. take each positive and reinforce it. You seem to be expecting perfection from an imperfect person. Maybe he didn't have too much fun ever. I donn't know how old he was when this started, but maybe enjoying himself is ok if it isn't tool loud and he's being independent. We all seek independence in a way. THat is healthy. Give yourself time for yourself too. Self care is important for caretakers. I have been sick a long time on my own. Now I like flowers that bloom and music that uplifs and enjoy peace in my brain. That peace is freedom within itself and feels great. The burden to perform has been lifted and I am loved. I didn't like people staring at me while I was trying to get well on my own and having a panic attack and my X wanting me to fix his problems. What a crazy joke. He's not there to make you feel better and watch all the time. That's intimidating to me. Help him with a goal if he has one he likes. Maybe he doesn't know what he really likes. Maybe he never had a chnce to know that. I never did. I had to grow up too soon. No I know what I like. to be accepted and listened and talked to like I am a person that matters, not just listening to others all the time tell me what to do. I am trying to rely on what God tells me what to do now. Others opinions of what I should be doing and put downs never helped a lick. I am not a clone. Whose to say what is normal in this chaotic world.? Personally, the pills made me sicker and drugged out. I dream of an opportunity to be creative and play tennis and learn to draw and things I never got to do. But nobody will provide me that opportunity. They just think I am bad and I don't need them anymore. We don't have to live up to the expectations of the world or others if they don't uplift us. So, he;s a little childish. We all are in some way. Selfish. Write a list of gratitude like we are all expected to do. we all have struggles, but we can be greateful for something about our lives. Do some research, be proacitve, fight for him , not against him. He's not there to give you peace. He's trying to find peace. Sorry, if I seem harsh, but I found peace and I like it. It's my right and my peace for me. My kids are workaholics with no fun and joy in their lives. Is that better? Some of my family are addicted to trips, but don't seem to enoy them much or talk about their experiences with them, they just plan another one. That's their business. We have to follow the rules of the Government and of places we go to, but our homes should be a place of relaxation for everyone. Relax and don't worry so much. Worry doesn't do anything and being content in whatever our circumstances is important too. Don't compare yourself to others lives. They have their own issues I am sure. Envy is not so good. Accepting is surrendering and enjoy blessing that come your way.

谢谢你上传你的故事。我的儿子在复发。周的吵闹的音乐和打碎一些东西(墙)。他带着药物,但有点不对劲。他有社区支持的工人,但他们并不住在这里或每周花超过20分钟。你的列表是我列表;正确的时间每天都在当地的咖啡店。今晚我们有另一个事件,我感到非常孤立的(甚至为自己对不起)。我不是新的疾病;我的母亲和两个儿子,但这并不使它更容易当你处于危机状态。 Tonight I thought I'd check FB and pretend everything is fine. I became so frustrated that I typed "I hate schizophrenia" and your blog was 1st on the search results. There is no pleasure when reading about your pain, but there is comfort knowing there are others that really understand. Surprisingly, I've calmed down and found my compassion again.
谢谢你！

谢谢你上传你的故事。我的儿子在复发。周的吵闹的音乐和打碎一些东西(墙)。他带着药物,但有点不对劲。他有社区支持的工人,但他们并不住在这里或挂件超过每周20分钟。你的列表是我的列表。今晚我们有另一个事件,我感到非常孤立。我想检查FB,假装一切都很好。我变得如此沮丧,我输入“我讨厌精神分裂症”,你的博客在搜索结果第一。令人惊讶的是,我冷静下来,发现我的同情。 Thank you!

randye凯……我猜想你的儿子本不是第一代抗精神病药物。为什么?因为医生正在幻想新的更好和他们不是!亲爱的珍贵的兄弟39岁时开始药物治疗。年龄28日以来一直听声音。没有他的药物是第一是Navane一样有效。找到一个老的病人做wellon吃药,你会发现有人在低剂量的第一代药物。像Haldol。

谢谢你！我们感到孤独。我们想迫使巧妙地把狗动物收容所。害怕他的反应!
妈妈的丈夫

亲爱的Randye,读过一些你的博客。我们的28岁的儿子有精神分裂症。他不是服用药物,充满仇恨。意思的事情,他说我们是不可原谅的。我们认为他有这个来自Jr.high抽大麻。我们觉得没有什么将会改变对他的药物,直到他回来。每周,治疗师和认知行为。不会做任何事情。有一个工作,但是是季节性的。整天睡觉,整夜。昨天带回家一只大狗。 Want him to take it to a shelter ,but he'd rather move out. Why so stubborn? We love our son, but hate the disease. Have hardly told anyone that he has this. People don't understand. Am numb to all of this chaos today, but probably will be in care giving mode if he'll let me tomorrow. This is a terrible horrible draining disease for the entire family. Hang in there, momma b

Randye,谢谢你与我们分享你的生活。我的儿子22岁,即将23岁,正在遭受的日常与精神分裂症。你和你的家人都在我的思想和祈祷,是其他人的生活。上帝知道我们需要所有的祈祷我们能!

现在的生活,很高兴知道我们并不孤单。上帝保佑我们平安,耐心和理解。我发现在这些情况下祈祷是我唯一的安慰。现在我发现我的儿子祈祷,因为我做的,它有助于分散他,无论我们在哪里梯子。

我和我的儿子也这样生活。
我对他永远不知道写在博客上,因为它是如此势不可挡……我不知道从哪里开始。
我很高兴和感谢所有因为你的帖子帮我知道有其他人能理解。

感谢你分享你的家庭的故事。这些类型的东西将使我们的社会更加了解仍被许多的疾病。
我遭受焦虑因为我9岁但不是诊断,直到我18岁。我第一次与抑郁症是在以后的生活中。我很幸运——第一个药物试过,把它放到缓解。
2007年的事件在工作中把我推到另一个大萧条。这次是治疗耐药。我目前采取6不同的心理药物。我以前一直在处理等。目前我享受休息。
我希望你,本,和其他的家人和朋友一切顺利。再次感谢你分享你的经验与精神分裂症。它可以帮助我们与其他精神疾病理解疾病和家庭是如何影响的。更重要的是,我希望那些是完全无知的精神疾病时将另一步的理解。

谢谢你分享你的痛苦。我之前没有读过你的博客,这绝对是我可以联系。是好理解的一个社区。所以很难看到我们所爱的人通过这种可怕的疾病。我的爱和祈祷所有受影响;我相信我们是地球上最勇敢的人!

你真是一个伟大的妈妈。上帝保佑你的灵魂! ! !

你好Randye我只是第一次阅读你的博客。我姐姐发送链接给我。我的儿子现在是他的第三个Communiy治疗是治疗他将通过法院命令。花了一年好,社交和他仍然看不出如何对他有益的药物。他被送往医院后,他完成了他的贸易和退出他的学徒一个月直到他去完成。他准备离开这个世界。我有一个很棒的支持团队在我们心理健康中心。我的长处是Depo注射。我将继续争取这些每6个月不仅保证他的人身安全,但我的家人。

我很欣赏你的坦诚分享爱和“黑暗”的一面照顾家庭成员患有精神分裂症。我研究撰写关于精神分裂症患者谁没有有效的支持/照顾家庭或社区,和他们的疾病把他们犯下可怕的罪行,经常对他们最喜欢的人。这是另一个原因为什么我们讨厌精神分裂症。像老年痴呆症,它剥夺了我们的人我们知道,替换另一个版本,永远是一样的,永远不会。潜在的损失出演。Randye,谢谢你的勇敢的声音。——贾尼斯冬青展位http://amzn.to/1hnlnB5

读到这里我知道你说的在这里。我们的儿子是只有11和双相情感障碍的诊断与精神功能。我们知道当事情下降。他从不打架我们采取药物或者去约会。但是,他知道肯定是错误的,他不懂的东西。我们所能做的就是爱他,支持他,支持他,给他他作为一个人无论多么重要环境。我知道我们将照顾他很长时间了。我将试着用爱,恩典和耐心。只是为了他。谢谢你写这篇文章。 I have read your book.

对不起。
我们也要注意。蒂姆的看法正好相反每年的这个时候。他更孤僻,更容易急躁,耳机在24/7,佩带迷虽然外面5度为白噪声。蒂姆有史以来最长的住院时间是3月,每年冬天的拖延,我感到紧张。
这里的希望,本和蒂姆今年冬天。
——Chrisa

我们处理这种疾病已经有10年了。我儿子刚过了27已经住院9次。每次他下车,我们充满希望,因为他是稳定的,我觉得我有我的儿子回来。但是,几天后他离开药物,我再一次失去他讨厌的疾病。我也读过你的书,能与这么多。我很抱歉,你或任何其他母亲遭受绝望的看着消失从你的孩子欢乐和光明的未来,他们被剥夺,因为这讨厌的疾病。

我在考虑你,Randye。爱,艾伦R

谢谢你的诚实是痛苦的。我刚开始读你的书,已经哭了在阅读的相似之处。我们正在与我们的儿子是在危机中确诊和拒绝任何类型的寻求治疗。他18岁。你的书带来了希望的现实我们的旅行会是什么样子。

我看了你的评论与悲伤。我的思想和祈祷与你同在。

爱你。我的心向你伸出。